Are you a doer?

    This week I had the opportunity to visit with a beloved friend, who is a successful entrepreneur. Early on in his marriage and career, he realized that working for someone else was not for him. So he quit his job and ventured out on his own (in 1978). Through the years he has learned a lot and made a successful business that currently supports himself, some of his children, and many families that work for him. I have even spent time working for him! He is a wonderful man that I have really enjoyed learning from.

    We discussed that there are two kinds of people. Those that show up and those that do. This idea has caused me to ponder what kind of person I am. Am I a doer? Or one that just shows up? I would like to think that I am a doer, but I think I am a little bit of both. There are times that I just show up. Physically or emotionally, I am just spent from the challenges of life, so I just show up. There are other times that I can take the bull by the horns and get things done. I definitely need to improve my stamina to be more on the doer side.

    Another concept that we discussed that has caused me to ponder is watching and praying. He said that to be successful, you have to watch for what is coming and be flexible to adapt. Apple wouldn’t be nearly what it is if they didn’t watch and continue innovating. I saw this first hand in Dean’s company. When the pandemic first hit, his business took a large hit. No one was having surgery to need rehab supplies. I saw his business shift. They hired all the newly returned missionaries and put them to work making personal protective equipment for the hospitals. Dean and his team saw a need and adapted.

    I want to be like Dean when I grow up!

Tarryn is a Leader!

         This week’s study took us down the journey of leadership. It got me thinking about my daughter. She just graduated high school and has been a natural leader her whole life. People are drawn to her. After graduation she took a job at Wal Mart. She is working in the online order/pickup department. It is her first week and I am already hearing comments of how this or that could be improved or made more efficient. She took this job because it is something that she can do for a short time without getting attached and feel bad when she leaves in September. Her natural abilities are far beyond this entry level job and I see management qualities in her that will take her far in whatever field she chooses.

Leadership skills are something that my daughter got from my husband, not from me. Being a leader is hard for me. Developing plans and delegating are not my strong suit. That is one of the reasons that I went back to school. I want to build a business teaching others how to sew and quilt. I want to quilt with a long arm quilting machine and help people get their projects across the finish line. I feel that having some schooling in my background will help me accomplish this dream.

I am excited to learn from Dean Cropper, who built Cropper Medical and the Bioskin brand. He has been there and done that. He and his wife have persevered through the hard times and I am sure they have celebrated the good. They have built a legacy that they are able to pass on to their children. Thankfully their children have embraced different parts of the business. There are many family businesses that the children don’t want any part of.

My quilting business could be one of them.

Perseverance

 Often times, when I have a challenge that I am trying to work through, I think of the pioneers of the early Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. They had some HARD challenges. The journey across the plains to the Salt Lake Valley was long and difficult. Many didn’t make it due to illness or injury causing death along the way but the people knew what they were doing was right and that the Lord would bless them in their efforts. They persevered despite it being hard.

We learned from Elder Jeffrey R. Holland (who at the time of the address was the president of BYU) some of the details regarding the building of the Salt Lake temple. The building of this temple took 40 long years of blood, sweat and tears. Once the foundation was dug out and prepared, they had to cover it back up. This must have been so discouraging. Then they had to do it again because it was cracked when they uncovered it. Elder Holland discussed the hard work it took to get just one stone from quarry, cut just the right size and shape and how the people saw very little progress from week to week on the building. But the people knew they were doing the work of the Lord. They had faith and kept on going.

My business isn’t the first priority in my life right now, my family is. My children are growing and getting ready to leave the house for their own adventures. I am trying to savor the time I have left with them. That is a challenge itself. I work my business when they are at school or work. They pop home for a few minutes here and there. I try to spend those few minutes with them. They have been extremely supportive of me. Offering encouraging words when something doesn’t go just right, cheering me on to the finish line of a project or watching the little guy so I don’t have any interruptions. They are wonderful children!

I strive to keep the example of the pioneers in my thoughts when things get hard. They persevered and so can I. I can build a business, with the Lord’s help.

7 Habits of Highly Effective People

     I would say that most of us have heard of the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. This week we focused on learning what these 7 habits are. I haven’t actually read the book, but I think that I may have to now. The 7 habits are broken into two groups. The first three habits, once mastered, give a person a private victory. The last four, once mastered, give a person a public victory. A person must have had a private victory before accomplishing a public victory.

In my life right now, I am drawn to the private victory. I have a beautiful family with lots going on and often struggle to feel on top of it all. The first habit is probably the one that jumps out at me the most. Be Proactive. To me being proactive is the same thing as playing offense in a basketball game. You are the one to make the move rather than responding to the move someone else made. I have had a few times in my life when I was successful at being proactive. More often, though, I am on defense. Just scraping by to get everything done, everyone where they need to be, and fed. Don’t forget to feed the children. Things will get messy if you forget.

I feel like these 7 habits (be proactive, begin with an end in mind, put first things first, think win/win, seek first to understand, then to be understood, synergize and sharpen the saw) will help me on my road to a successful business in the quilting industry. I have already partially skipped the first habit and began to visualize my quilting studio filled with people, learning from one another and building a community together. I guess I need to go back and work on being proactive before I get too far ahead of myself.

When I accomplish my private victory, I will be prepared to move on and have a public victory.